Occupation: student
Gender: female
since Aug 13 2006
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Saturday, December 16, 2006
i'll be migrating to a new platform,
uhh finally...
i've found the good one...hope no more problems
well yes, i've planned to do so few months back,
yet i managed to migrate on today..
been busy of doing stuff lately...
yeah merely reasons...hihihi
ohkay wanna know the address? email me...
till then.
Posted at Saturday, December 16, 2006 by a turning point
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Tuesday, December 05, 2006
1 month of semester break.
...
classes will be started sooner
6 days more..
ohh shouldn't it sounds motivating n perking..
hehehe.. *winks*
suffice to say that 1 month hols is just more than enough..
well it's applicable only at this moment..hehe..
i've went for the holidays with my beloved family
i've have adequate rest, sufficient leisure, abundant of tight-sleep which is satisfactory enough for myself at the moment..
erm... one thing that i am still missing and wishing that there are still times and chances to do it is meeting all my old good friends...if not all..some of u..then it's more than i could anticipate..
to those whom i met accidentally or we did plan for it.. thank you for still remembering me, knowing me n having me as one of your friends.. *smiles widely* i do appreciate each n everyone of u..
till then..
Posted at Tuesday, December 05, 2006 by a turning point
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Friday, December 01, 2006
Why she WON'T wear hijab!
salam~
bismillah..
i came across this while surfing the net n i thought it might be interesting to share this with u all:
Why she WON'T wear hijab!
a discussion by A.Q. Alidost
"I'm so tired"
"Tired of what?"
"Of all these people judging me."
"Who judged you?"
"Like that woman, every time I sit with her, she tells me to wear hijab."
"Oh, hijab and music! The mother of all topics!"
"Yeah! I listen to music without hijab... haha!"
"Maybe she was just giving you advice."
"I don't need her advice. I know my religion. Can't she mind her own business?"
"Maybe you misunderstood. She was just being nice."
"Keeping out of my business, that would be nice..."
"But it's her duty to encourage you do to good."
"Trust me. That was no encouragement. And what do you mean 'good' ?"
"Well, wearing hijab, that would be a good thing to do."
"Says who?"
"It's in the Qur'an, isn't it?"
"Yes. She did quote me something."
"She said Surah Nur, and other places of the Qur'an."
"Yes, but it's not a big sin anyway. Helping people and praying is more important."
"True. But big things start with small things."
"That's a good point, but what you wear is not important. What's important is to have a good healthy heart."
"What you wear is not important?"
"That's what I said."
"Then why do you spend an hour every morning fixing up?"
"What do you mean?"
"You spend money on cosmetics, not to mention all the time you spend on fixing your hair and low-carb dieting."
"So?"
"So, your appearance IS important."
"No. I said wearing hijab is not an important thing in religion."
"If it's not an important thing in religion, why is it mentioned in the Holy Qur'an?"
"You know I can't follow all that's in Qur'an."
"You mean God tells you something to do, you disobey and then it's OK?"
"Yes. God is forgiving."
"God is forgiving to those who repent and do not repeat their mistakes."
"Says who?"
"Says the same book that tells you to cover."
"But I don't like hijab, it limits my freedom."
"But the lotions, lipsticks, mascara and other cosmetics set you free?! What's your definition of freedom anyway?"
"Freedom is in doing whatever you like to do."
"No. Freedom is in doing the right thing, not in doing whatever we wish to do."
"Look! I've seen so many people who don't wear hijab and are nice people, and so many who wear hijab and are bad people."
"So what? There are people who are nice to you but are alcoholic. Should we all be alcoholics? You made a stupid point."
"I don't want to be an extremist or a fanatic. I'm OK the way I am without hijab."
"Then you are a secular fanatic. An extremist in disobeying God."
"You don't get it, if I wear hijab, who would marry me?!"
"So all these people with hijab never get married?!"
"Okay! What if I get married and my husband doesn't like it? And wants me to remove it?"
"What if your husband wants you to go out with him on a bank robbery?!"
"That's irrelevant, bank robbery is a crime."
"Disobeying your Creator is not a crime?"
"But then who would hire me?"
"A company that respects people for who they are."
"Not after 9-11"
"Yes. After 9-11. Don't you know about Hanan who just got into med school? And the other one, what was her name, the girl who always wore a white hijab... ummm..."
"Yasmeen?"
"Yes. Yasmeen. She just finished her MBA and is now interning for GE."
"Why do you reduce religion to a piece of cloth anyway?"
"Why do you reduce womanhood to high heals and lipstick colours?"
"You didn't answer my question."
"In fact, I did. Hijab is not just a piece of cloth. It is obeying God in a difficult environment. It is courage, faith in action, and true womanhood. But your short sleeves, tight pants..."
"That's called 'fashion', you live in a cave or something? First of all, hijab was founded by men who wanted to control women."
"Really? I did not know men could control women by hijab."
"Yes. That's what it is."
"What about the women who fight their husbands to wear hijab? And women in France who are forced to remove their hijab by men? What do you say about that?"
"Well, that's different."
"What difference? The woman who asked you to wear hijab... she was a woman, right?"
"Right, but..."
"But fashions that are designed and promoted by male-dominated corporations, set you free? Men have no control on exposing women and using them as a commodity?! Give me a break!"
"Wait, let me finish, I was saying..."
"Saying what? You think that men control women by hijab?"
"Yes."
"Specifically how?"
"By telling women how and what to wear, dummy!"
"Doesn't TV, magazines and movies tell you what to wear, and how to be 'attractive'?"
"Of course, it's fashion."
"Isn't that control? Pressuring you to wear what they want you to wear?"
Silence
"Not just controlling you, but also controlling the market."
"What do you mean?"
"I mean, you are told to look skinny and anorexic like that woman on the cover of the magazine, by men who design those magazines and sell those products."
"I don't get it. What does hijab have to do with products."
"It has everything to do with that. Don't you see? Hijab is a threat to consumerism, women who spend billions of dollars to look skinny and live by standards of fashion designed by men... and then here is Islam, saying trash all that nonsense and focus on your soul, not on your looks, and do not worry what men think of your looks."
"Like I don't have to buy hijab? Isn't hijab a product?"
"Yes, it is. It is a product that sets you free from male-dominated consumerism."
"Stop lecturing me! I WILL NOT WEAR HIJAB! It is awkward, outdated, and totally not suitable for this society... Moreover, I am only 20 and too young to wear hijab!"
"Fine. Say that to your Lord, when you face Him on Judgment Day."
"Fine."
"Fine."
Silence
"Shut up and I don't want to hear more about hijab niqab schmijab Punjab!"
Silence.
She stared at the mirror, tired of arguing with herself all this time. Successful enough, she managed to shut the voices in her head, with her own opinions triumphant in victory on the matter, and a final modern decision accepted by the society, rejected by the Faith: Yes to curls on the hair, no to hijab.
Posted at Friday, December 01, 2006 by a turning point
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salam~
felt sorry to kham who has trying hard to set the date and contact all the nuranians ppl in order to gather back each other...unfortunately most of us can't make it due to some reasons..huhu~~ thus the gathering has to be cancelled..uhu.. really sorry to hear that..
talking abt nuranians or specifically old good friends in smkj2..i do miss all of u ppl as more than words could describe...we've been together in the same school, same building, same class for almost 3 years... 1 harmoni..then 2 harmoni n finally 3 nurani... all the sweet memories n treasures are still fresh in my mind..hehe i hope so.. *winks*
well here was where all the good friendships started..me n my bestfriends forever ['izzah n farzaana] bonded over and up to this year making this our 8th years of friendship! O Allah please make our friendship last forever! ameen~~
not to forget to my childhood friend maryam.. a dentist to be..yeah even our hse is just 15 minutes walking distance..yet we rarely met each other aite...hehe it's due to different term-break we have..i miss u very much mayam!!! i still remember, many years back...during our primary-school time..we used to play together either at my hse or at ur hse..ouh i really miss that precious moment!~
yesterday i chatted wif fatihah aka lily!! i guess i hvn't met her since i moved to kisas..luckily the tech now is very good so we always meet in ym..hehe.. aha..u know what she forwarded to me our pictures during the choral speaking competition at SAMTEN.. and it has made me to reminisce back all the training we did together for few monthes which finally gave us a 2nd place..if i'm not mistaken laa... here goes the team-mates : maryam, amni, siti, fatihah, liana, tasneem, mai, sharifah, mardiana, aisyah, dayah, zafirah, kham, mielah, ayu, ziha, mardiah, n some juniors..
ahha maisarah...i met her coincidencely last saturday..hehe.. *smiles widely* i was actually accompany my friend, sis hawa, who used to be a practical teacher in smkj4 to meet her ex-student for some reasons...then what a small world~ her ex-student was mai's sister... fortunately, mai was still on her hols..so i met her as well (at first it was like long-lost friend meeting back..shouting to each other, unbelievable expression-making..heheh) and we started to talk like we used to do during secondary school...haha..n i tend to forget my friend was there..
well i guess enough said here or else it'll be longer n no full stop..haha.. i really hope we, us will gather back someday in the future..insyaAllah! take care everyone.. *loves*hugs*
p/s: kudedikasikan lagu ni buat semua sahabat, teman dan kenalan:
Untukmu
Sahabat
Dalam kabur ku tercari-cari cahaya
Akhirnya ku temui sinar ceria diraut wajahmu
Andainya alam ini mampu berkata-kata
Pastilah pujian buat dirimu
Di waktu itu akulah yang bertuah
Punya sahabat sepertimu
Sahabat
Kau bimbing lah menuju cahaya Ilahi
Sahabat
Aku lemah mengharungi ranjau dunia
Sahabat
Aku ingin seperti mu dalam ketenangan
Menghadapi hidup ini
Sahabat ku bersyukur kerna mengenali dirimu
Ku harap moga kitakan terus bersama
Hadapi segala suka duka
Moga kejayaan milik kita
Agar hidup menuju mulia
Posted at Friday, December 01, 2006 by a turning point
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Wednesday, November 29, 2006
alhamdulillah... alhamdulillah...alhamdulillah...
syukran ya Allah!
Posted at Wednesday, November 29, 2006 by a turning point
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Wednesday, November 22, 2006
salam!
bismillah~
..huh..it's been a long time since i ate a good one, tasty n nice cheese cake..n today i have it...home-made ohkay! emmm they're yummiee delicious...precisely on what i've for today, are a tiramisu cake + blueberry cheese cupcake n chocolate cheese cupcake( comey je cupcake nih (",) ) ..all of 'em again sgt sedap!! i can taste the creamy cheesy of tiramisu..plus the sprinkle of cocoa powder on the top of each scoop of the tiramisu cake..what more can i ask if there're chocolate cheese cupcakes right in front of u..hoho i'm a big fan of chocolate n cheese ohkay! they're so lovely!! and the cheesy yummy of blueberry cheese cup cakes as well... ehem..well it's not me who're either experimenting a new recipe or baking 'em on my own but i ordered at here..
OoOoo..what have i been doing today?? putting on more weight..haih~ nevertheless i luv 'em... hence..no regret at all! thumbs up!
want some more...!! ^_^
Posted at Wednesday, November 22, 2006 by a turning point
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Tuesday, November 14, 2006
~ m u h a s a b a h d i r i ~
Antara Semalam dan Masa hadapan
Imam Ibn Qayyim Al Jawziyyah
Hidupmu di saat ini adalah diantara hari hari semalam dan masa hadapan. Jadi, segala yang telah berlalu boleh ditebus dengan Taubah (taubat), nadam (penyesalan) dan istighfar (meminta keampunan dari Allah). Dan ianya tidak akan memenatkan kamu, dan tidak memerlukan kamu berhempas pulas seperti halnya jika kamu seorang buruh kasar. Malah ianya adalah perbuatan hati. Oleh itu, untuk masa hadapan, (ia boleh di perbetulkan) dengan melindungi diri dari dosa. Melindungi diri ini hanyalah dengan meninggalkan (perbuatan dosa itu) dan berasa selesa tanpanya. Ini juga bukan perbuatan tubuhmu, yg memerlukan kamu berusaha dan berhempas pulas. Malah ia adalah keteguhan pendirian dan niat di hati. Jadi untuk segala yang telah berlalu, betulkanlah dengan taubat. Dan untuk masa hadapan, betulkanlah ia dengan meneguhkan pendirian dan niat. Kedua duanya tidak mengenakan sebarang kesusahan dan keletihan pada tubuh.
Tetapi perhatian kamu harus ditumpukan kepada masa kehidupan kamu di saat ini - masa diantara dua masa. Jika kamu membazirkannya, maka kamu telah melepaskan peluang untuk menjadi dikalangan mereka yang beruntung dan diselamatkan. Jika kamu menelitinya, setelah memerhatikan kedua dua masa tadi - masa yg sebelum dan selepas saat ini, seperti yg telah kita bicarakan - maka kamu akan menjadi seorang yg berjaya dan kamu akan mencapai kerehatan, kegembiraan dan nikmat yang kekal abadi. Tetapi, menjaganya lebih susah dari apa yg telah berlalu dari nya dan yg akan datang kemudian, kerana menjaganya memerlukan kamu meletakkan hidup kamu kepada perkara yang paling layak dan bermanfaat utk ruh kamu, dan itulah yg akan membawa kamu kepada kejayaan.
Dan barang siapa yang berjihad, maka sesungguhnya jihadnya itu adalah untuk dirinya sendiri. Sesungguhnya Allah benar-benar Maha Kaya (tidak memerlukan sesuatu) dari semesta alam. Al Ankabut:6
source : click here
Posted at Tuesday, November 14, 2006 by a turning point
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Monday, November 06, 2006
bisMilLah~
saLam~
alhAmDuLilLaH the first semester of 2nd year is already done!
the final eXam just ended on the dot of 35 minutes past 5 on sunday..
5 papers within 1 week k..hoho.. not bad eh..
fiNal exAm right after rAya..
4 papers straighT from tuesday up till friday and finaLly ended on suNday.. oh thaNk GoD!
and Now I can enjoY the hOlidays.. it's1 week earLier thaN the otherS!! yeehaaa!! =D
what i'm gonna do in this almost 1 month of semester breaK?
uhhuhh.. lots of plan in my mind aite now..
ouh..need to list 'em out..haha..but surely not in here..
but anyhow..i guess it's not too late to wish all the muslims "SELAMAT HARI RAYA" aNd "maAf zaHir batIn"!!
our raya is 1 month aite?..hehe
here goes my special dedication to alL my belOveD friEnds:
for things i did wrong
for words which might hurt
for jokes u can't take
for advices u can't accept
1001 apologise from me (^ _ ^)
eId MuBaraK! mAy ALLAH bless each n everyOne of u!
p/s: thanks to NiSa's mom for the delicious meal yesterday! ;)
Posted at Monday, November 06, 2006 by a turning point
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Wednesday, October 04, 2006
in the name of Allah, bismillah...
moga daku dan sahabat2ku sentiasa tsabat di jalanMu Ya Rabb~ ameen....
Sahabat Perjuangan ~Tazakka~
Pertemuan kita kali ini
Bukan sekedar kawan lama tak jumpa
Tapi kita bertemu ada satu makna
Kita punya satu perjuangan
Andai ada kasih antara kita
Kita kembalikan kepada Yang Esa
Agar ia suci tulus dan ikhlas
semoga Allah memberkati
Sambutlah tangan sahabat saudaramu
Pimpinlah ia melangkah bersama
Satukan hati kita teguhkan ia
Berdiri bersama untuk kebenaran
Reff:
Perjuangan itu artinya berkorban
Berkorban itu artinya terkorban
Janganlah gentar untuk berjuang
Demi agama dan bangsa
Inilah jalan kita
credit to nabilah~
syukran ya ukht!
Posted at Wednesday, October 04, 2006 by a turning point
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sometimes to forget about sth
we need to see the bad things of it
it's painless
sometimes to avoid from feeling hatred to ppl
we need to reminisce about good things done by those ppl to us
it's easier
whatever it is...
to practic it...
yeah, need times n effort...
-...seiring waktu yang terus berputar...-
Posted at Wednesday, October 04, 2006 by a turning point
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